Date or hate dating
The obvious factor is anxiety, a dirty, weasel-like state that makes men and women alike want to crawl out of their skin as they sit across from a stranger and try to pretend they're perfectly at ease. Simply put, it's about the dreaded pauses, as well as the rote questions people feel compelled to ask each other upon first meeting.
If you hate dating, it usually boils down to two factors, one of which is obvious; the other of which is not.
In other words, everyone hates the uncomfortable pauses and usual questions: "So, where are you from? " If this is true, daters might need to mix it up a bit.
I like to know in advance if I am going to see the person.
I don't want someone to text me two weeks after I saw them last.
Best way to represent yourself and also send a message to the person you're on the date with: This is me, take it or leave it.
But let's not waste time together of we aren't a good fit!