Some of us will go through a hard time here in Japan.
You’ll start to feel completely unattractive and ignored at times.
They’re not afraid of showing their feelings in public or telling their girls flat out how they feel about them. The extreme version of this is known as “gaijin hunter” and some will do everything for the sake of having one of those adorable “half”-kids (half Western, half Japanese) just to toss their foreign guy later on.
It is by far not impossible and I know quite a few girls who don’t only have a Japanese boyfriend, but are also married to a Japanese man, but it is still the BIG exception!One big problem seems to be the fact that in Japan the man earns the money, but the woman takes care of it!The man only gets a small allowance every week or month and needs to ask his wife for permission if he wants to spend any more of his own hard-earned money!The complete opposite is the case for (Western) foreign women in Japan.Japanese guys are often too shy, scared or whatever and the majority of Western men is only interested in Japanese / Asian women.
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All in all, it is easy for a Western foreign man to find a Japanese woman or to have a nice relationship here in Japan.